Today Mr.Syed Bokhari initiated a discussion over Love by posting this in a group named Good Chums at FB. He said:
Love is a luxury and only rich and aimless people can afford it…the person who work whole day to earn the food to survive, cant afford love…the person who is too much busy paying for the loans he has taken from the banks after his marriage..also fulfilling the desires of his wife cant afford love…love is only affordable for the richie rich’s….whose father has accumulated enough money so that his child can dream the whole day and think about Love… 🙂
I thought this discussion on youth’s Love worth sharing on my blog. Here we go. 😛
And I in reply was of the view:
Love is unconditional and unpredictable. Love is reason why this world exists. If you dont have been provided with love to your family and friends you would have got none to share your emotions, and you would have been a lonely just like hell. You know what even a begger when falls in love feels like king of world. What you are talking about is physical attraction. A wife demands high profile and protocols which need money. Love is unconditional.!!!
Syed Bokhari Physical attraction ? 😐
what if this physical attraction transforms into real love ?
Engr Hassan Raza Is there something Virtual Love? why you always use another word with Love! 😛
Syed Bokhari So does that mean that particular type of ‘wife’ dont love their husbands ?
Engr Hassan Raza Love is not confined to husband and wife only.
Syed Bokhari & of course it is unconditional but what if a man not having enough money to feed or support his family will do if he falls in love ?
Vuja De Does FALLING IN LOVE necessarily means that you Marry that person? O.o
Syed Bokhari lol… … dont u want to spend ur life with him ? I mean though you may nt marry but of course you will make a try to do so….knowing that may be it will go in vain !
Vuja De That is also not love :D:D:D Ye pyar wiyar kuch nae hota 😀 We may develop some attachments with a certain person . :p love is selfless and selfless love is possible only and only with Allah Almighty. 🙂
Syed Bokhari Engr Hassan Raza we all…(except riches) are so drowned in psychological debt that I dont think we can think abt loving a person…whom we want to be our life partner…
our parents…the circumstances through which they have brought us up…creates psychological debt that we are left wid no option but to pay it off…may be in installments !
Engr Hassan Raza
You cannot talk or discuss about Love unless you have experienced it. There are alot of other spam words which have been named as love by our youth, like physical attractions, desires, chemical reactions which encourage those desires. Of course luxury is a person’s favorite thing and someone may fall in love to someone to achieve that luxury. But whenever the love is true with someone in this earth or with with the one who created us, then we are on right path. There is no more soft and delicate word that can be used to explain this love thing. Love is defined in many ways but none of them is that lovely as love is. Its like a paradox.